CAN’T BUY

INTO SOMEONE’S POTENTIAL.

without buying into their work ethic.

The VICTIM ROLE is played by a person who always claims they are the victim of circumstance instead of taking any responsibility for the outcome of their own actions. And they will draw you into their victimhood every chance they get. They will try to waste your time by evoking sympathy for their ‘plight’ even though most times they are the ones responsible for the situation they find themselves in. They will feed you lies in order to MANIPULATE you. People that play this game with you are more dangerous than you ever know. They steal the most valuable asset that you have. They steal your time. They bait you with guilt and when you respond with positivity, they devalue your opinions, outlook or solution. Once you stop buying the guilt they are feeding you, they will disappear and move on to the next poor sucker.

  • They permanently label themselves as victims.
  • They focus on their past instead of their future.
  • They blame everyone and everything for their own failures.
  • They are always setting limitations on their involvement.
  • They are unmotivated.

Some of the above traits are from a person that allows themselves to be LABELED as Depressed. We don’t believe in labels and we fight back with all the natural responses described in this book. The purpose of this book is to spend at least 20 min a day on being positive and dreaming toward your future. We believe going forward is by choice. There are at least 10 techniques in this book for fighting depression, including mood-boosting alternatives and personal value raising exercises. Use them all and your life will turn around.